The LoveIQ Glossary
Your guide to the terminology of self-understanding. Decode the language of
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Abandonment InsecurityActive / Direct InitiationActual PleasureAdrenalineAffection GapAffection PreferencesAftercareAftercare DependencyAgency (Intentional Growth)Aggregation & CoarseningAnonymizationAnonymized Research AccessAnxious AttachmentArchaic AlgorithmsArchetypal AlignmentArousalArousal AcceleratorArousal BrakeArousal CurveArousal MapArousal Non-ConcordanceArousal StyleArousal WindowAsexualityAttachment StyleAttentional FocusAttraction SpectrumAutonomic Nervous SystemAutonomic Nervous System (ANS)Autonomy NeedAvoidant AttachmentAwakening / Exploring
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Casual DatingCognitive and Somatic DissonanceCognitive ConsonanceCommitment ScriptsCommitted Partnership (Non-Exclusive)CommunicationCommunication PatternsCommunication StyleCompatibility DynamicsConditional DesireConditional InitiationConsentConsent AwarenessConsent FrameworksConstellation of ArchetypesContext-Sensitive AssessmentsContext-Sensitive FantasiesContextual DesireControlled Research EnvironmentsCore InsecuritiesCore ModalitiesCore MotivationCortisolCultural MismatchCuriosity & Exploration OrientationCuriosity GapCuriosity Level
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DADTDeep SurveyDemisexualityDesireDesire CuesDesire DiscrepancyDesire FluctuationDesire InhibitionDesire InitiationDesire MismatchDesire ShutdownDesire TriggerDirect & AssertiveDirect IdentifiersDisclosure ComfortDisorganized AttachmentDon’t-Ask-Don’t-Tell (DADT)DopamineDual Control Model of Sexual Response
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Educational Poverty (Sexual Education Deficit)Embodied ConfidenceEmbodied IntegrationEmbodiment StyleEmotion-First ArousalEmotional IntimacyEmotional NeedsEmotional RegulationEmotional SafetyEmotional SatisfactionEndorphinsEnergy LevelEngulfment InsecurityErotic BreakupErotic CuriosityErotic Meaning SystemErotic PolarityEthical ConstraintsEthical ContainmentEthicsEvent-Based RewardEvolutionary HardwareEvolutionary MismatchEvolving / TranscendingExhibitionismExpanding / ExperimentingExploration PaceExpressive & Performative
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Identity & OrientationImportance of SexualityInadequacy / Performance InsecurityIndirect / Invitational InitiationInitiation & Communication StyleInitiation AnxietyInitiation ComfortInitiation PatternInitiation StyleInterest MismatchInterpretive DepthIntimacyIntimacy Frequency ExpectationsItem-Level Response Patterns
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Pacing & Arousal CurvePartner-FocusedPassive or Avoidant InitiationPattern Libraries (by Modality)Performance AnxietyPerformance-Based ConfidencePhysical Touch ComfortPlay StylePleasure NeedsPleasure PressurePleasure PrioritiesPleasure Self-EfficacyPolyamoryPolyvagal TheoryPower ExchangePower OrientationPower-Based ArousalPractical Wisdom TraditionsPresence vs PerformancePrivacyPrivacy BoundaryPrivacy ConstraintsProcess-FocusedProgressive PrecisionPseudonymizationPsychological SoftwarePsychometric Approximation
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Re-Identification RiskRecharging / PausingReflective & SymbolicReflective PromptsRejection SensitivityRelational AttunementRelational LoopsRelational OrientationRelationship AnarchyRelationship Form PreferenceRelationship SatisfactionRelationship StabilityReliabilityRepairing / ReconnectingResearch-Grade DatasetReserved & WithdrawnResponsive ArousalResponsive DesireResponsive InitiationReward System RecalibrationRisk OrientationRitual IntimacyRole PlayRole-Based ConfidenceRoleplay BoundariesRoutine Comfort
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Safe WordSafer-Sex AgreementsSatisfaction BaselineScores & BenchmarksSecure AttachmentSelf-FocusedSensory PlaySensual MassageSerial MonogamySerotoninSextingSexual ArchitectureSexual ConfidenceSexual DesireSexual DiversitySexual Excitation System (SES)Sexual Frequency ExpectationsSexual Inhibition System (SIS)Sexual IntelligenceSexual NeedsSexual ReadinessSexual SatisfactionSexual ScriptSexual Self-ActualizationSexual Self-EfficacySexual ShadowSexual SignatureSexual StageSexual TabooizationSignal MismatchSilent (Assumed) MonogamySituationshipSkill- and Knowledge-Based ConfidenceSocial SoftwareSoft SurveySoft-SensorySomatic IntegrationSomatic SexologySpike-Based ArousalSpiritual SexualitySpontaneous ArousalSpontaneous DesireState OptimizationState-Based RewardStrategic & PersuasiveStress And DesireStructured Action → Integration SequenceSubjectiveSupportive & AdaptiveSuppression of Rare CombinationsSystemic Gap in Sexual Education
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