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Neurochemical “Big Three” (dopamine / oxytocin-vasopressin / endogenous opioids)

Framework & ModelDesire & ArousalGeneral Sensitivity

A shorthand for three neurochemical systems often linked to sexual motivation and reward (dopamine), bonding and attachment (oxytocin/vasopressin), and pleasure/comfort (endogenous opioids).

What This Really Means

These systems interact: novelty can boost dopamine, closeness can strengthen bonding signals, and soothing touch can support comfort and satisfaction.

Popular media can exaggerate simple “chemical” explanations, so it’s best used as a lens rather than a diagnosis.

Culture and relationship meaning strongly shape how these reward signals are experienced and interpreted.

Examples

Anticipation and flirting increasing motivation and excitement

Cuddling and affectionate reassurance deepening a sense of bonding

Feeling calm, satisfied, and connected after pleasurable intimacy.

Common Misunderstandings

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Reality

Neurochemical “Big Three” (dopamine / oxytocin-vasopressin / endogenous opioids) describes a shorthand for three neurochemical systems often linked to sexual motivation and reward (dopamine), bonding and attachment, so it doesn’t mean that sex is “just chemicals” and love is an illusion.

Reality

Neurochemical “Big Three” (dopamine / oxytocin-vasopressin / endogenous opioids) isn’t defined by you need constant novelty, and it’s about a shorthand for three neurochemical systems often linked to sexual motivation and reward (dopamine), bonding and attachment.

Reality

Neurochemical “Big Three” (dopamine / oxytocin-vasopressin / endogenous opioids) doesn’t guarantee outcomes like that, and it mainly describes a shorthand for three neurochemical systems often linked to sexual motivation and reward (dopamine), bonding and attachment.

Reality

More accurately, Neurochemical “Big Three” (dopamine / oxytocin-vasopressin / endogenous opioids) refers to a shorthand for three neurochemical systems often linked to sexual motivation and reward (dopamine), bonding and attachment, and neurochemicals determine compatibility without communication doesn’t follow from that.

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#bonding#dopamine#pleasure#oxytocin#desire-arousal#framework-model

Inside LoveIQ

We identify patterns related to Neurochemical “Big Three” (dopamine / oxytocin-vasopressin / endogenous opioids) by analyzing responses in our assessment modules, helping you understand your unique relationship dynamics.

Sample visualization of a gap metric.

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