Determine Your Sexual Archetypes
Grounded in state-of-the-art science & research. In just 15 minutes, unlock a freemium personalized report decoding your sexual archetype and patterns, so you get clear, practical steps to improve intimacy.
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- Completion time
- ≈ 15 min
- Archetypes
- 14
- Dimensions measured
- 21
- Report pages per Archetype
- +50
- 14-day money-back guarantee used
- 0,00%
- Methodology
- Validated, multi-factor
How it works
Take the assessment
We guide you through the key dimensions that shape your intimate life — one careful question at a time.
Get your report
Your answers translate into a personalized report — the signature of how your sexuality works.
Grow with guidance
Clear, practical steps help you translate insight into changed behaviour, week by week.
10,000+
people have taken a first step to understand themselves.
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The results are extensive and spot-on, without the test being too long. I got to know myself better, and it will help my partner understand me better as well.
"I'd never really explored my sexuality or the patterns behind it before. I already learned a lot just from taking the test, but the insights in the full report were truly eye-opening. Absolutely worth it."
"The results were more insightful than I expected. It connected dots between emotional triggers and communication styles I hadn't noticed before. Solid UX, too."
"Unlocking my report was one of the best investments made for my sexuality. It is shockingly precise."
Great intimacy requires a vocabulary most of us were never taught.
LoveIQ gives you the language to name what you feel, want, and need.
Decode your patterns
See how your attachment and communication styles interact — not in jargon, but in plain language tied to your own life.
Speak the unspeakable
Desire is complex. Without the right words, needs go unmet and frustrations build silently.
Grow on your own timeline
Because every psychology is unique, one-size-fits-all advice doesn’t work. We all need guidance tailored to our emotional blueprint.
Intimacy is studied closely, and discussed almost never.
Positive sexual well-being is highly linked to lower stress, anxiety, and depression, better cardiovascular health, and higher relationship satisfaction. We want to make sexuality something we can explore with curiosity, confidence, and care — not shame or confusion.
Explore the 14 Archetypes
Every person maps onto a signature of how they relate and desire. Your report places you precisely, with the nuance between types — never a box, always a position. Your archetype is not a guess. It is the shape of your answers, scored against a validated model.
Your answers
≈ 60 calibrated items across the full instrument — situational, not self-flattering.
Twenty-one dimensions scored
Each answer loads onto the dimensions below, weighted by a model refined across 30,000+ responses.
Your archetype
The shape of your scores is matched to its nearest archetype — with the distance to neighbouring types kept visible.
We will score you against all our existing archetypes:
- 01
Authority Conductor
“Let me lead the rhythm, set the rules, and build the tension between us.”
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Loyal Ritualist
“Give me the familiar touch, the trusted rhythm, and the comfort of returning to this.”
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Explorer of Edges
“Take me somewhere new, intense, and real enough to shake me awake.”
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Spark Seeker
“Tease me, surprise me, chase me a little — I want sex to feel alive.”
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Radiant Performer
“Look at me like you want me, and I’ll show you more of myself.”
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Spiritual Lover
“Make it feel meaningful — like our bodies are saying something deeper.”
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Curious Apprentice
“Guide me, show me what you like, and let us learn what feels good together.”
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Relational Nurturer
“Let us make each other feel safe, cared for, and wanted again.”
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Tender Devotee
“Tell me I’m wanted, show me I’m enough, and I’ll slowly open to you.”
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Sensual Connector
“Hold me close, take your time, and let me feel that you are really here with me.”
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Analytical Sexualist
“Tell me what works, let me understand your body, and I’ll get better at pleasing you.”
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Emotional Voyeur
“Let me watch, imagine, and feel the tension before I fully step in.”
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Minimalist Companion
“No pressure, no performance — just be close, be kind, and stay with me.”
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Quiet Withdrawer
“Come slowly, ask gently, and let me feel that I can say no and still be safe.”
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14 abstractions. You are more than just one of them.
Spark Seeker
"Let's find the spark—then turn it into a blaze."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Pleasure & play
Charming
Active
Avoidant/secure
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Sensual Connector
"Touch me with presence and meet me with heart."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Intimacy & bonding
Authentic
Responsive
Anxious
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Authority Conductor
"I set the frame—and we play inside it."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Power
Commanding
Active
Disorganized
Dominant
Tender Devotee
"Tell me I'm enough."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Validation
Adaptive
Responsive
Anxious
Submissive
Minimalist Companion
"Simple is enough."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Connection
Calm
Passive
Avoidant
Submissive
Radiant Performer
"Watch me shine."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Validation
Expressive
Active
Mixed
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Curious Apprentice
"Teach me everything."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Growth
Open
Shared
Secure
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Actionable
Personalized next steps, bite-size practices, and guided reflection prompts, so you know exactly what to try this week.
Science-backed
Based on over +100 scientific papers & books from the world's leading therapists and researchers.
100% Private
Your data is anonymous. We prioritize your privacy and do not sell your personal information or link results to your identity.
We will provide you with a +50 page long report
LoveIQ helps you decode your desires, attachment patterns, emotional needs, and intimate dynamics so you can build relationships that are aligned, exciting, and safe.
Guided educational assessment
Built on latest psychology & relationship science.
Personalized to your archetype
Showing your individual patterns and challenges.
20+ detailed report sections
Covering turn-ons, fears, strengths & growth paths.
Tailored recommendations
Curated resources for your archetype & preferences.
What the LoveIQ Report looks like:
“My report was shockingly accurate.”
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Supported by academic multidisciplinary expertise
Dr. Dijana Galijašević
Dr. Bruno Steinkraus
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Who is this perfect for?
This is for people who are ready to explore who they are, grow with more awareness, and bring more intention into their sexual lives. We built it for you, and we built it for ourselves too.
Inward / Solo ← → Shared / Relational
Singles
Understand what you want — before the next relationship shapes it for you.
People in relationships
Strengthen communication, sexual alignment, and long-term compatibility.
Couples exploring growth
Map where you each stand, then move toward each other with intent.
Self-development lovers
For readers, journalers, and inner-work types who take themselves seriously.
Therapists & coaches
A shared vocabulary and a structured map to ground your work with clients.
LoveIQ gives you language.
Stop guessing. Get clarity, vocabulary, and a deeper understanding of the terms that define your connection — we decode the complex science of intimacy, one word at a time.
- Responsive desireDisposition
- Spontaneous desirePsychology
- Attachment theoryPsychology
- Desire discrepancyRelational
- EroticismSociology
- LimerencePsychology
- Secure basePsychology
Responsive desire
A pattern of desire that emerges in response to emotional connection, touch, or context rather than appearing spontaneously.
For a great many people, wanting does not switch on by itself. It warms in response to context: safety, attention, touch, the sense of being chosen. Nothing is wrong; the order is reversed.
If you wait to feel like it before you begin, you may wait a long time. Responsive desire asks you to create the conditions first, and let the wanting catch up.
In our data, partners who can name where their desire is responsive report markedly fewer conflicts about frequency.
Curious minds ask.
We answer.
If a question is still unanswered, write to us. Reach us at hello@loveiq.org.
We read every message, and we will get back to you.
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