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Grounded in state-of-the-art science & research. In just 15 minutes, unlock a freemium personalized report decoding your sexual archetype and patterns, so you get clear, practical steps to improve intimacy.
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Great intimacy requires a vocabulary most of us were never taught.
Great intimacy requires a vocabulary most of us were never taught.
Struggling to explain?
Desire is complex. Without the right words, needs go unmet and frustrations build silently.
Tired of vague advice?
Because every psychology is unique, one-size-fits-all advice doesn’t work. We all need guidance tailored to our emotional blueprint.
4.9/5 Rating
30,000+ people have taken a
first step to understand themselves.
Philipp Leonhard, 42
Product Owner IT
"I'd never really explored my sexuality or the patterns behind it before. I already learned a lot just from taking the test, but the insights in the full report were truly eye-opening. Absolutely worth it."
Richard Petrich, 34
Entrepreneur
"The results were more insightful than I expected. It connected dots between emotional triggers and communication styles I hadn't noticed before. Solid UX, too."
Dorian, 34
File manager
The results are extensive and spot-on, without the test being too long. I got to know myself better, and it will help my partner understand me better as well.
Marija Mustapić, 41
IT Infrastructure
"Unlocking my report was one of the best investments made for my sexuality. It is shockingly precise"
Why we created LoveIQ?
Positive sexual well-being is highly linked to lower stress, anxiety, and depression, better cardiovascular health, and higher relationship satisfaction. Therefore we want to make sexuality something we can explore with curiosity, confidence, and care — not shame or confusion.Positive sexual well-being is highlylinked to lower stress, anxiety, anddepression, better cardiovascularhealth, and higher relationshipsatisfaction.Therefore we want to make sexualitysomething we can explore withcuriosity, confidence, and care — notshame or confusion.
42% - 54%
of women and men in long-term relationships report sexual dissatisfaction.
20%
Satisfaction
Only 20%
of adults say they're satisfied with their sex life.
Fulfillment Gap Detected
< 50%
Nearly two-thirds say their sex life shapes their happiness — yet less than half feel fulfilled.
Explore Our 14 Archetypes
None of us is just one archetype. We all express a unique mix, shaped by context, history, and relationships. That's why our mission is to help you explore the archetypes that resonate most with you.
Spark Seeker
"Let's find the spark—then turn it into a blaze."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Pleasure & play
Charming
Active
Avoidant/secure
Switch
Sensual Connector
"Touch me with presence and meet me with heart."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Intimacy & bonding
Authentic
Responsive
Anxious
Switch
Authority Conductor
"I set the frame—and we play inside it."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Power
Commanding
Active
Disorganized
Dominant
Tender Devotee
"Tell me I'm enough."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Validation
Adaptive
Responsive
Anxious
Submissive
Minimalist Companion
"Simple is enough."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Connection
Calm
Passive
Avoidant
Submissive
Radiant Performer
"Watch me shine."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Validation
Expressive
Active
Mixed
Switch
Curious Apprentice
"Teach me everything."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Growth
Open
Shared
Secure
Switch
7 more archetypes
to explore...
To explore all 14 archetypes, start our test and discover which ones fit you best.
Start test now•Takes 15 minutes • No account required
Spark Seeker
"Let's find the spark—then turn it into a blaze."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Pleasure & play
Charming
Active
Avoidant/secure
Switch
Sensual Connector
"Touch me with presence and meet me with heart."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Intimacy & bonding
Authentic
Responsive
Anxious
Switch
Authority Conductor
"I set the frame—and we play inside it."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Power
Commanding
Active
Disorganized
Dominant
Tender Devotee
"Tell me I'm enough."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Validation
Adaptive
Responsive
Anxious
Submissive
Minimalist Companion
"Simple is enough."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Connection
Calm
Passive
Avoidant
Submissive
Radiant Performer
"Watch me shine."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Validation
Expressive
Active
Mixed
Switch
Curious Apprentice
"Teach me everything."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Growth
Open
Shared
Secure
Switch
7 more archetypes
to explore...
To explore all 14 archetypes, start our test and discover which ones fit you best.
Start test now•Takes 15 minutes • No account required
Spark Seeker
"Let's find the spark—then turn it into a blaze."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Pleasure & play
Charming
Active
Avoidant/secure
Switch
Sensual Connector
"Touch me with presence and meet me with heart."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Intimacy & bonding
Authentic
Responsive
Anxious
Switch
Authority Conductor
"I set the frame—and we play inside it."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Power
Commanding
Active
Disorganized
Dominant
Tender Devotee
"Tell me I'm enough."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Validation
Adaptive
Responsive
Anxious
Submissive
Minimalist Companion
"Simple is enough."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Connection
Calm
Passive
Avoidant
Submissive
Radiant Performer
"Watch me shine."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Validation
Expressive
Active
Mixed
Switch
Curious Apprentice
"Teach me everything."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Growth
Open
Shared
Secure
Switch
7 more archetypes
to explore...
To explore all 14 archetypes, start our test and discover which ones fit you best.
Start test now•Takes 15 minutes • No account required
Spark Seeker
"Let's find the spark—then turn it into a blaze."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Pleasure & play
Charming
Active
Avoidant/secure
Switch
Sensual Connector
"Touch me with presence and meet me with heart."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Intimacy & bonding
Authentic
Responsive
Anxious
Switch
Authority Conductor
"I set the frame—and we play inside it."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Power
Commanding
Active
Disorganized
Dominant
Tender Devotee
"Tell me I'm enough."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Validation
Adaptive
Responsive
Anxious
Submissive
Minimalist Companion
"Simple is enough."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Connection
Calm
Passive
Avoidant
Submissive
Radiant Performer
"Watch me shine."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Validation
Expressive
Active
Mixed
Switch
Curious Apprentice
"Teach me everything."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Growth
Open
Shared
Secure
Switch
7 more archetypes
to explore...
To explore all 14 archetypes, start our test and discover which ones fit you best.
Start test now•Takes 15 minutes • No account required
Spark Seeker
"Let's find the spark—then turn it into a blaze."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Pleasure & play
Charming
Active
Avoidant/secure
Switch
Sensual Connector
"Touch me with presence and meet me with heart."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Intimacy & bonding
Authentic
Responsive
Anxious
Switch
Authority Conductor
"I set the frame—and we play inside it."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Power
Commanding
Active
Disorganized
Dominant
Tender Devotee
"Tell me I'm enough."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Validation
Adaptive
Responsive
Anxious
Submissive
Minimalist Companion
"Simple is enough."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Connection
Calm
Passive
Avoidant
Submissive
Radiant Performer
"Watch me shine."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Validation
Expressive
Active
Mixed
Switch
Curious Apprentice
"Teach me everything."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Growth
Open
Shared
Secure
Switch
7 more archetypes
to explore...
To explore all 14 archetypes, start our test and discover which ones fit you best.
Start test now•Takes 15 minutes • No account required
Spark Seeker
"Let's find the spark—then turn it into a blaze."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Pleasure & play
Charming
Active
Avoidant/secure
Switch
Sensual Connector
"Touch me with presence and meet me with heart."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Intimacy & bonding
Authentic
Responsive
Anxious
Switch
Authority Conductor
"I set the frame—and we play inside it."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Power
Commanding
Active
Disorganized
Dominant
Tender Devotee
"Tell me I'm enough."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Validation
Adaptive
Responsive
Anxious
Submissive
Minimalist Companion
"Simple is enough."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Connection
Calm
Passive
Avoidant
Submissive
Radiant Performer
"Watch me shine."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Validation
Expressive
Active
Mixed
Switch
Curious Apprentice
"Teach me everything."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Growth
Open
Shared
Secure
Switch
7 more archetypes
to explore...
To explore all 14 archetypes, start our test and discover which ones fit you best.
Start test now•Takes 15 minutes • No account required
Actionable
Personalized next steps, bite-size practices, and guided reflection prompts, so you know exactly what to try this week.
Science-Backed
Based on over +100 scientific papers papers & books from the worlds leading therapists and researchers.
100% Private
Your data is anonymous. We prioritize your privacy and do not sell your personal information or link results to your identity.
How it Works
Step One
Take the Assessment
We’ll guide you through key dimensions that shape our sexual life.
Step Two
Get your freemium Report
Gain new insights into your sexuality with a personalized report based on archetypes.
Step Three
Grow With Guidance
Work on actions that create lasting change and deeper fulfillment.
LoveIQ Gives You Language.
Stop guessing. Get clarity, vocabulary, and a deeper understanding of
the terms that define your connection. We decode the complex
science of intimacy.
Responsive Desire
Physiology
Attachment Theory
Psychology
The 5 Love Languages
Expression
Compersion
Ethics
Limerence
Neuroscience
Erotic Intelligence
Sexology
Importance of
Sexuality
How central sex and sexual connection are to a person's overall relationship satisfaction and sense of wellbeing.
For some people, sexual connection is a primary bonding channel; for others, it is secondary to emotional intimacy, companionship, or shared goals.
Importance can shift with health, aging, parenting, and life stress, and it is also shaped by culture and values.
We identify patterns related to Importance of Sexuality by analyzing responses in our assessment modules.
LoveIQ Report
LoveIQ helps us decode our desires, attachment patterns, emotional needs, and intimate dynamics so we can build relationships that are aligned, exciting, and safe.
Guided educational survey
Built with psychology & relationship science.
Personalized towards our archetypes
Showing our individual patterns and challenges.
20+ detailed report sections
Covering turn-ons, fears, strengths & growth paths.
Tailored recommendations
Curated resources for our archetypes & preferences.
“The accuracy shocked me.”
— Alex M.
Archetype Found
Explorer of Edges
Who Is This Perfect For?
This is for people who are ready to explore who they are, grow with more awareness, and bring more intention into their sexual lives. We built it for you, and we built it for ourselves too.
Singles
Gain self-awareness, attract healthier partners, and stop repeating old patterns.
People in Relationships
Decode each other's needs and create more intimacy, ease, and connection.
Couples Exploring Growth
Strengthen communication, sexual alignment, and long-term compatibility.
Self-Development Lovers
Anyone obsessed with understanding their psychology, attachment style, and desire patterns.
Therapists & Coaches
Use a structured psychometric tool to help clients articulate their emotional and sexual identity.
Singles
Gain self-awareness, attract healthier partners, and stop repeating old patterns.
People in Relationships
Decode each other's needs and create more intimacy, ease, and connection.
Couples Exploring Growth
Strengthen communication, sexual alignment, and long-term compatibility.
Self-Development Lovers
Anyone obsessed with understanding their psychology, attachment style, and desire patterns.
Therapists & Coaches
Use a structured psychometric tool to help clients articulate their emotional and sexual identity.
Supported by academic multidisciplinary expertise
Dr. Dijana Galijašević
Dr. Bruno Steinkraus
Dr. Quentin Ferry
Let's explore our desiresand connection.
Clarify your inner landscape.
Turn inward, and map out the desires, boundaries, and emotions you've never fully named. LoveIQ guides us with thoughtful questions so we can give language to what we feel and want.Turn inward, and map out the desires,boundaries, and emotions you've neverfully named. LoveIQ guides us withthoughtful questions so we can givelanguage to what we feel and want.
Uncover your unique erotic signature.
Discover patterns that belong only to you—no generic horoscopes here. Our science based report reveals how our mind, body, and heart connect so we can understand ourself.Discover patterns that belong only toyou—no generic horoscopes here. Ourscience based report reveals how ourmind, body, and heart connect so wecan understand ourself.
Curious Minds Ask. We Answer.
LoveIQ analyzes how you think, feel, communicate, and relate. It translates your responses into a personalized archetype profile and relationship intelligence report that highlights patterns, strengths, challenges, and compatibility dynamics.
Your data is encrypted, private, and never sold. Responses are used only to generate your results and to improve our models in anonymized form. You can delete or export your data at any time.
Your results will include core archetype, other archetype match scores, attachment style, communication style, risk orientation, strengths and challenges, practical insights and much more. The report is designed to feel both emotionally resonant and scientifically grounded.
LoveIQ is for anyone seeking deeper clarity about their sexuality and relationship patterns. It is especially relevant for people who value self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and personal growth.
Yes. LoveIQ draws from relationship psychology, attachment theory, personality science, behavioral research, and large-scale pattern analysis. These foundations are combined with modern machine-learning techniques to create a rigorous and human-centered system.
Accuracy depends on the clarity and honesty of your inputs. The model identifies consistent patterns across multiple dimensions, going beyond a casual personality quiz. While no system can capture every nuance of a person, many users report that the insights feel precise and personally meaningful.
Yes. You can use LoveIQ with only an email address, to which your results will be delivered.
We are working with selected psychologists and relationship coaches to offer optional paid sessions. These experts will be familiar with the LoveIQ framework and able to support you based on your profile.
You can start with a free LoveIQ assessment. Full report or specialized bundles are available through a one-time purchase.
Most users complete the initial assessment in 15 minutes. It is mobile-friendly, intuitive, and can be paused and resumed at any time.
Yes. Progress is saved using a secure magic link sent to your email. You can resume, revisit results, or share them with a partner—no account required.
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Join us to build stronger relationships, communicate with real clarity, and step into confident, authentic sexuality.