Determine
Your Sexual
Personalities
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In just 9 minutes, decode your sexual personality and patterns, so you get clear, practical steps to improve intimacy.
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Right now, I feel satisfied with my sex life.
Think about the last one to two months overall, not your best or worst day.
This sets the baseline your whole result is read against. Answer it here and we carry it straight into your test — you will not be asked again.
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In 9 minutes, you'll know things about yourself most people never learn.
What actually turns you on
Your desire has a logic. We put it into plain words you can use.
What raises the heat, and what kills it
The exact conditions that switch desire on for you, and the ones that shut it down.
Words for what you crave
You can't ask for what you can't name. This gives you the vocabulary.
Where you and a partner keep missing each other
See how your patterns collide in bed, and where the real gap is.
We give you the words.
Most people can feel what they want but can't say it.
Your report turns your patterns into a vocabulary, so you can finally ask for what you want, out loud.
- responsive desire
- pursuit & chase(locked — unlocked in your report)
- accelerators & brakes
- aftercare
- novelty seeking
- edge & taboo(locked — unlocked in your report)
- initiation style
- attachment & desire
- power play
- sacred & ritual(locked — unlocked in your report)
FROM THE REPORT · INITIATION STYLE
Say this instead
- “Are you tired?”
- “I want you tonight.”
- You slow down and wait.
- “When I slow down, I am starting.”
- “Never mind.”
- “I am still here. Ask me again later.”
Same want, but expressed with words they cannot miss.
Some of it you suspect. Some of it you don't.
- DESIRE ACCELERATORSFREE
Your strongest turn-on, named
- DESIRE BRAKESFREE
What quietly kills the mood for you
- CORE PERSONALITYFREE
Your personality type, out of 14
Your desire is responsive, not spontaneous
It doesn't switch on. It warms up, and the conditions are the ignition.
The conditions your desire needs to flourish, and the ones that quietly kill it
The patterns you keep landing in with partners, and how to break them
How to reignite desire when it has faded
Your Power Orientation and Arousal Style, and the conditions each one needs met
Knowing your personality is the difference between guessing and asking.
47%
of adults carry a sexual concern they have never voiced to a partner.
1 in 5
adults say they are satisfied with their sex life. Only one in five.
+41%
higher reported satisfaction when partners can name their own patterns.
Sources: LoveHoney Global Sex Survey 2023 · ASHA National Sexual Health Survey 2024 · Frontiers in Psychology 2024 · Columbia University Medical Center 2022
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14 personalities. You are more than just one of them.
Spark Seeker
"Let's find the spark—then turn it into a blaze."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Pleasure & play
Charming
Active
Avoidant/secure
Switch
Sensual Connector
"Touch me with presence and meet me with heart."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Intimacy & bonding
Authentic
Responsive
Anxious
Switch
Authority Conductor
"I set the frame—and we play inside it."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Power
Commanding
Active
Disorganized
Dominant
Tender Devotee
"Tell me I'm enough."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Validation
Adaptive
Responsive
Anxious
Submissive
Minimalist Companion
"Simple is enough."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Connection
Calm
Passive
Avoidant
Submissive
Radiant Performer
"Watch me shine."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Validation
Expressive
Active
Mixed
Switch
Curious Apprentice
"Teach me everything."
Behavioral tendencies:
Core motivation:
Growth
Open
Shared
Secure
Switch
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The results are extensive and spot-on, without the test being too long. I got to know myself better, and it will help my partner understand me better as well.
"I'd never really explored my sexuality or the patterns behind it before. I already learned a lot just from taking the test, but the insights in the full report were truly eye-opening. Absolutely worth it."
"The results were more insightful than I expected. It connected dots between emotional triggers and communication styles I hadn't noticed before. Solid UX, too."
"Unlocking my report was one of the best investments made for my sexuality. It is shockingly precise."
Built by researchers, not by a personality quiz.
≈60 calibrated items
Situational questions across the full instrument, not self-flattering ones.
Scored against 30,000+ responses
Each answer loads onto the model's dimensions, weighted by data, refined over time.
Matched to your nearest personality
The shape of your scores finds its closest match, with the distance to neighbouring types kept visible.
Grounded in 100+ scientific papers and books.
“Care and transparency should go hand in hand. Especially when technology touches intimacy. LoveIQ helps people understand not only their result, but the reasoning behind it, because meaningful feedback should always be explainable.”
“The 14 personalities aren’t invented categories. They’re recurring patterns in how desire, attachment and arousal cluster across the research.”
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