Dual Control Model of Sexual Response
A research-backed model that explains sexual arousal as the balance between excitation (accelerators) and inhibition (brakes), shaped by context, meaning, and safety.
What This Really Means
The Dual Control Model is often used to normalize why desire varies: the same person can feel highly sexual in one context and shut down in another.
It supports practical troubleshooting by identifying accelerators to add and brakes to reduce, rather than blaming libido or compatibility.
The model is used internationally in sex research and therapy, though it should be applied with cultural humility and individual nuance.
Examples
A couple improves sex by reducing stress triggers (brakes) and adding playful initiation (accelerators)
Someone notices arousal is easier on vacation than during work deadlines
A person realizes privacy concerns are a stronger brake than attraction is an accelerator.
Common Misunderstandings
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Dual Control Model of Sexual Response doesn’t automatically mean arousal is purely mechanical, and context still matters.
Consent and comfort come first, and Dual Control Model of Sexual Response only makes sense when those are respected.
Dual Control Model of Sexual Response can fluctuate, so “always” or “never” claims don’t hold up.
Even with Dual Control Model of Sexual Response, clear boundaries still apply.
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