Spontaneous Desire
A pattern of desire that arises on its own, without needing external stimulation or emotional buildup.
What This Really Means
Spontaneous desire arises seemingly without external prompting and is only one of several normal desire patterns.
It should not be treated as the default or most valid form of sexual interest.
Examples
Feeling a sudden interest in sex without a specific trigger
noticing desire appear independently of touch or emotional context.
Common Misunderstandings
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More accurately, Spontaneous Desire refers to a pattern of desire that arises on its own, without needing external stimulation or emotional buildup, and spontaneous desire is the “normal” or ideal form of desire doesn’t follow from that.
Spontaneous Desire isn’t defined by low libido, and it’s about a pattern of desire that arises on its own, without needing external stimulation or emotional buildup.
Spontaneous Desire won’t look the same every time, and it often depends on conditions like safety and stress.
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