Commitment Scripts
Implicit rules someone carries about what commitment ‘should’ look like (timelines, exclusivity, rituals, roles).
What This Really Means
In everyday relationships, this can look like feeling close, understood, and emotionally connected.
Context like responsiveness, conflict repair, and daily habits changes how it feels.
Examples
Example: Feeling close after repair
Another example: Drifting when routines disappear
Common Misunderstandings
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More accurately, Commitment Scripts refers to implicit rules someone carries about what commitment ‘should’ look like (timelines, exclusivity, rituals, roles), and a healthy relationship has no friction doesn’t follow from that.
Commitment Scripts describes implicit rules someone carries about what commitment ‘should’ look like (timelines, exclusivity, rituals, roles), so it doesn’t mean that if it’s meant to be, it stays easy.
Commitment Scripts points to implicit rules someone carries about what commitment ‘should’ look like (timelines, exclusivity, rituals, roles), so needs shouldn’t change is a misunderstanding.
Commitment Scripts points to implicit rules someone carries about what commitment ‘should’ look like (timelines, exclusivity, rituals, roles), so it can’t change is a misunderstanding.
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Inside LoveIQ
We identify patterns related to Commitment Scripts by analyzing responses in our assessment modules, helping you understand your unique relationship dynamics.
Sample visualization of a gap metric.
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