Fantasy vs Practice Distinction
A clear separation between what feels arousing in imagination and what a person wants-or would be ethical-to do in real life.
What This Really Means
Many fantasies involve symbolism, novelty, or power dynamics that do not translate into real-world preferences.
The distinction supports consent and reduces shame by allowing fantasy to be understood as imagination rather than intention.
It is also helpful for safe disclosure: partners can share themes while agreeing on what stays in fantasy and what is negotiable in practice.
Examples
Enjoying a fantasy theme while having no desire to enact it
Sharing a fantasy as a story rather than a request
Agreeing that certain themes stay in imagination only, with clear boundaries.
Common Misunderstandings
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Fantasy vs Practice Distinction is about a clear separation between what feels arousing in imagination and what a person wants-or would be ethical-to do in real life, and it doesn’t imply that fantasies reveal what you secretly want to do.
Fantasy vs Practice Distinction is about a clear separation between what feels arousing in imagination and what a person wants-or would be ethical-to do in real life, and it doesn’t imply that if something turns you on, you must try it.
Sharing a fantasy can feel like a demand sometimes, but Fantasy vs Practice Distinction refers to a clear separation between what feels arousing in imagination and what a person wants-or would be ethical-to do in real life.
Fantasy vs Practice Distinction should never override consent or comfort, and safety stays the priority.
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