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Initiation Style

Practice & SkillSexual Communication & InitiationGeneral Sensitivity

The typical way someone starts sexual or intimate connection (e.g., direct, indirect, playful, slow-build).

What This Really Means

Often shows up as a recognizable pattern in thoughts, feelings, or behavior.

It’s shaped by context, communication, and personal history.

Examples

Saying what you want directly

Using a playful hint and then checking in

Common Misunderstandings

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Reality

Initiation Style points to the typical way someone starts sexual or intimate connection (e.g., direct, indirect, playful, slow-build), so talking about sex kills spontaneity is a misunderstanding.

Reality

Initiation Style points to the typical way someone starts sexual or intimate connection (e.g., direct, indirect, playful, slow-build), so if you have to ask, it’s not sexy is a misunderstanding.

Reality

Initiation Style can fluctuate, so “always” or “never” claims don’t hold up.

Tags

#initiation-style#sexual-communication-initiation#practice-skill

Inside LoveIQ

We identify patterns related to Initiation Style by analyzing responses in our assessment modules, helping you understand your unique relationship dynamics.

Sample visualization of a gap metric.

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