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Initiation & Communication Style

Practice & SkillSexual Communication & InitiationGeneral Sensitivity

How someone tends to start intimacy and how they communicate interest, consent, and preferences.

What This Really Means

In everyday relationships, this can look like tone, timing, and clarity in conversations.

Context like stress, conflict, and how safe it feels to be honest changes how it feels.

Examples

Saying what you want directly

Using a playful hint and then checking in

Naming a boundary before things escalate

Common Misunderstandings

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Reality

More accurately, Initiation & Communication Style refers to how someone tends to start intimacy and how they communicate interest, consent, and preferences, and talking about sex kills spontaneity doesn’t follow from that.

Reality

More accurately, Initiation & Communication Style refers to how someone tends to start intimacy and how they communicate interest, consent, and preferences, and if you have to ask, it’s not sexy doesn’t follow from that.

Reality

Initiation & Communication Style isn’t an all-the-time rule, and it can change with context and timing.

Reality

Initiation & Communication Style is about how someone tends to start intimacy and how they communicate interest, consent, and preferences, and it doesn’t imply that it can’t change.

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#communication#sexual-communication-initiation#practice-skill

Inside LoveIQ

We identify patterns related to Initiation & Communication Style by analyzing responses in our assessment modules, helping you understand your unique relationship dynamics.

Sample visualization of a gap metric.

“You don't need to label yourself. These terms help describe patterns — not define you.”

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