Power Orientation
A person’s preference for power dynamics in intimacy, such as enjoying equality, taking the lead, yielding control, or switching roles.
What This Really Means
Power orientation can be expressed in non-sexual relationship roles (decision-making, planning) and in erotic contexts (dominance/submission themes).
It is healthiest when it is consensual, explicit, and aligned with boundaries.
Power preferences can be cultural and contextual, and they may change depending on safety, trust, and stress levels.
Examples
Someone feels most turned on when they lead and their partner enjoys being guided
A person prefers egalitarian decision-making but likes playful dominance in the bedroom
A couple uses clear consent language when experimenting with control dynamics.
Common Misunderstandings
Tap each myth to reveal the reality
Power Orientation doesn’t automatically mean someone wants control in everyday life, and context still matters.
Power Orientation isn’t a synonym for aggression, and it points to a person’s preference for power dynamics in intimacy, such as enjoying equality, taking the lead, yielding control, or switching roles.
Consent matters more than any goal or label, and Power Orientation is secondary to that.
If partners differ, it can feel like unsafe to discuss sometimes, but Power Orientation refers to a person’s preference for power dynamics in intimacy, such as enjoying equality, taking the lead, yielding control, or switching roles.
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Inside LoveIQ
We identify patterns related to Power Orientation by analyzing responses in our assessment modules, helping you understand your unique relationship dynamics.
Sample visualization of a gap metric.
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