Being Safe
A felt sense that vulnerability won’t be punished—often supported by gentleness, consent, and reliable repair.
What This Really Means
Often shows up as feeling close, understood, and emotionally connected.
It’s shaped by responsiveness, conflict repair, and daily habits.
Examples
Feeling close after repair
Drifting when routines disappear
Common Misunderstandings
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More accurately, Being Safe refers to a felt sense that vulnerability won’t be punished—often supported by gentleness, consent, and reliable repair, and a healthy relationship has no friction doesn’t follow from that.
Being Safe is about a felt sense that vulnerability won’t be punished—often supported by gentleness, consent, and reliable repair, and it doesn’t imply that if it’s meant to be, it stays easy.
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Inside LoveIQ
We identify patterns related to Being Safe by analyzing responses in our assessment modules, helping you understand your unique relationship dynamics.
Sample visualization of a gap metric.
“You don't need to label yourself. These terms help describe patterns — not define you.”
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