Hardware–Software Framework
A model that separates biological “hardware” (body, brain, hormones, nervous system) from learned “software” (beliefs, scripts, experiences) to explain sexual functioning.
What This Really Means
The framework helps people troubleshoot without blame: a desire issue might be hardware (sleep, medication, pain), software (shame, scripts), or both.
It is also culturally flexible—software differs widely across countries, religions, and subcultures.
Using the model encourages comprehensive solutions: medical care when needed plus communication and skill-building.
Examples
Low libido improves after addressing sleep and stress (hardware) and reducing shame (software)
Arousal increases when partners change initiation habits and context
Someone notices medication affects response and adjusts with a clinician.
Common Misunderstandings
Tap each myth to reveal the reality
Sexuality isn’t always either biology or psychology, not both, and Hardware–Software Framework is about a model that separates biological “hardware” (body, brain, hormones, nervous system) from learned “software” (beliefs, scripts, experiences) to.
“Hardware” problems mean the relationship can feel like failing sometimes, but Hardware–Software Framework refers to a model that separates biological “hardware” (body, brain, hormones, nervous system) from learned “software” (beliefs, scripts, experiences) to.
Hardware–Software Framework points to a model that separates biological “hardware” (body, brain, hormones, nervous system) from learned “software” (beliefs, scripts, experiences) to, so “software” problems can be solved with willpower alone is a misunderstanding.
Hardware–Software Framework is a framework or label, not a validated diagnostic test.
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