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Sexual Script

Expectation & NormSexual Communication & InitiationGeneral Sensitivity

Culturally or personally learned expectations about how sexual or romantic interactions are supposed to unfold.

What This Really Means

Sexual scripts are culturally learned narratives about how intimacy is “supposed” to unfold.

Becoming aware of these scripts allows individuals and partners to question, revise, or reject them.

Examples

Believing sex should follow a specific sequence

assuming who should initiate

expecting certain outcomes from intimacy.

Common Misunderstandings

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Reality

Sexual Script points to culturally or personally learned expectations about how sexual or romantic interactions are supposed to unfold, so sexual scripts are natural instincts is a misunderstanding.

Reality

Sexual Script points to culturally or personally learned expectations about how sexual or romantic interactions are supposed to unfold, so everyone shares the same script is a misunderstanding.

Reality

Sexual Script points to culturally or personally learned expectations about how sexual or romantic interactions are supposed to unfold, so scripts cannot be changed is a misunderstanding.

Tags

#sexuality#expectations#sexual-communication-initiation#expectation-norm

Inside LoveIQ

We identify patterns related to Sexual Script by analyzing responses in our assessment modules, helping you understand your unique relationship dynamics.

Sample visualization of a gap metric.

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