Pattern Libraries (by Modality)
A structured collection of relationship and sexuality patterns, exercises, and prompts organized by modalities such as sensory, emotional, communication, fantasy, and novelty.
What This Really Means
Pattern libraries turn abstract concepts into practical options users can try.
Organizing by modality supports personalization: people can explore what works for their arousal style, values, and comfort level.
For global use, libraries should include culturally flexible language and multiple paths (e.g., verbal vs nonverbal communication) without stereotyping.
Examples
A "sensory" library of touch and pacing experiments
A "communication" library of consent check-ins and repair scripts
A "fantasy" library of safe sharing prompts and boundaries.
Common Misunderstandings
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Pattern Libraries (by Modality) points to a structured collection of relationship and sexuality patterns, exercises, and prompts organized by modalities such as sensory, emotional, so pattern libraries are stereotypes about people is a misunderstanding.
Pattern Libraries (by Modality) points to a structured collection of relationship and sexuality patterns, exercises, and prompts organized by modalities such as sensory, emotional, so if a pattern is suggested, you should do it is a misunderstanding.
Pattern Libraries (by Modality) should never override consent or comfort, and safety stays the priority.
More accurately, Pattern Libraries (by Modality) refers to a structured collection of relationship and sexuality patterns, exercises, and prompts organized by modalities such as sensory, emotional, and the same patterns work in every culture and relationship doesn’t follow from that.
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Inside LoveIQ
We identify patterns related to Pattern Libraries (by Modality) by analyzing responses in our assessment modules, helping you understand your unique relationship dynamics.
Sample visualization of a gap metric.
“You don't need to label yourself. These terms help describe patterns — not define you.”
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