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Sexual Psychology

Grounded in state of the art science & research. In just 10 minutes, unlock a freemium personalized report decoding your sexual archetype and patterns, so you can upgrade your intimate life with clarity

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How it Works

Step One

Take the Assessment

We’ll guide you through eight key dimensions that shape your sexual life.

~10 Minutes

Step Two

Get your freemium Report

Gain new insights into your sexuality with a personalized report based on archetypes.

Based on latest science

Step Three

Grow With Guidance

Discover insights that spark real behavioral change for deeper fulfillment.

Understand Desire
And Deepen Bonds!
Finally...
Life enhancing impact

Who Is This Perfect For?

We built this for anyone ready to grow, discover themselves, and actively enhance their sexual life. And honestly, we built it for ourselves too (and yes, we use it).

Singles

Singles

Gain self-awareness, attract healthier partners, and stop repeating old patterns.

People in Relationships

People in Relationships

Decode each other's needs and create more intimacy, ease, and connection.

Couples Exploring Growth

Couples Exploring Growth

Strengthen communication, sexual alignment, and long-term compatibility.

Self-Development Lovers

Self-Development Lovers

Anyone obsessed with understanding their psychology, attachment style, and desire patterns.

Therapists & Coaches

Therapists & Coaches

Use a structured psychometric tool to help clients articulate their emotional and sexual identity.

Singles

Singles

Gain self-awareness, attract healthier partners, and stop repeating old patterns.

People in Relationships

People in Relationships

Decode each other's needs and create more intimacy, ease, and connection.

Couples Exploring Growth

Couples Exploring Growth

Strengthen communication, sexual alignment, and long-term compatibility.

Self-Development Lovers

Self-Development Lovers

Anyone obsessed with understanding their psychology, attachment style, and desire patterns.

Therapists & Coaches

Therapists & Coaches

Use a structured psychometric tool to help clients articulate their emotional and sexual identity.

Great intimacy requires a vocabulary most of us were never taught.

Struggling to explain?

Desire is complex. Without the right words, needs go unmet and frustrations build silently.

Tired of vague advice?

Because every psychology is unique, one-size-fits-all advice doesn’t work. We all need guidance tailored to our emotional blueprint.

Explore Our 14 Archetypes

No one is just a single archetype. We all express a unique mix, shaped by context, history, and relationships. That's why our mission is to help you explore the archetypes that resonate most with you.

Spark Seeker

"Let's find the spark—then turn it into a blaze."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Pleasure & play

Communication

Charming

Initiation

Active

Attachment

Avoidant/secure

Power

Switch

Risk orientationHigh
Typical confidenceHigh

Sensual Connector

"Touch me with presence and meet me with heart."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Intimacy & bonding

Communication

Authentic

Initiation

Responsive

Attachment

Anxious

Power

Switch

Risk orientationLow
Typical confidenceModerate

Power Orchestrator

"I set the frame—and we play inside it."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Power

Communication

Commanding

Initiation

Active

Attachment

Disorganized

Power

Dominant

Risk orientationHigh
Typical confidenceHigh

Approval Seeker

"Tell me I'm enough."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Validation

Communication

Adaptive

Initiation

Responsive

Attachment

Anxious

Power

Submissive

Risk orientationLow
Typical confidenceLow

Minimalist Companion

"Simple is enough."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Connection

Communication

Calm

Initiation

Passive

Attachment

Avoidant

Power

Submissive

Risk orientationLow
Typical confidenceLow

Exhibitionist Performer

"Watch me shine."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Validation

Communication

Expressive

Initiation

Active

Attachment

Mixed

Power

Switch

Risk orientationHigh
Typical confidenceHigh

Curious Apprentice

"Teach me everything."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Growth

Communication

Open

Initiation

Shared

Attachment

Secure

Power

Switch

Risk orientationModerate
Typical confidenceModerate
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7 more archetypes
to explore...

Relational Healer
Spiritual Lover
Loyal Ritualist

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Spark Seeker

"Let's find the spark—then turn it into a blaze."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Pleasure & play

Communication

Charming

Initiation

Active

Attachment

Avoidant/secure

Power

Switch

Risk orientationHigh
Typical confidenceHigh

Sensual Connector

"Touch me with presence and meet me with heart."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Intimacy & bonding

Communication

Authentic

Initiation

Responsive

Attachment

Anxious

Power

Switch

Risk orientationLow
Typical confidenceModerate

Power Orchestrator

"I set the frame—and we play inside it."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Power

Communication

Commanding

Initiation

Active

Attachment

Disorganized

Power

Dominant

Risk orientationHigh
Typical confidenceHigh

Approval Seeker

"Tell me I'm enough."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Validation

Communication

Adaptive

Initiation

Responsive

Attachment

Anxious

Power

Submissive

Risk orientationLow
Typical confidenceLow

Minimalist Companion

"Simple is enough."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Connection

Communication

Calm

Initiation

Passive

Attachment

Avoidant

Power

Submissive

Risk orientationLow
Typical confidenceLow

Exhibitionist Performer

"Watch me shine."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Validation

Communication

Expressive

Initiation

Active

Attachment

Mixed

Power

Switch

Risk orientationHigh
Typical confidenceHigh

Curious Apprentice

"Teach me everything."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Growth

Communication

Open

Initiation

Shared

Attachment

Secure

Power

Switch

Risk orientationModerate
Typical confidenceModerate
Unlock Insight

7 more archetypes
to explore...

Relational Healer
Spiritual Lover
Loyal Ritualist

To explore all 14 archetypes, start our survey and discover which ones fit you best.

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Spark Seeker

"Let's find the spark—then turn it into a blaze."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Pleasure & play

Communication

Charming

Initiation

Active

Attachment

Avoidant/secure

Power

Switch

Risk orientationHigh
Typical confidenceHigh

Sensual Connector

"Touch me with presence and meet me with heart."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Intimacy & bonding

Communication

Authentic

Initiation

Responsive

Attachment

Anxious

Power

Switch

Risk orientationLow
Typical confidenceModerate

Power Orchestrator

"I set the frame—and we play inside it."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Power

Communication

Commanding

Initiation

Active

Attachment

Disorganized

Power

Dominant

Risk orientationHigh
Typical confidenceHigh

Approval Seeker

"Tell me I'm enough."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Validation

Communication

Adaptive

Initiation

Responsive

Attachment

Anxious

Power

Submissive

Risk orientationLow
Typical confidenceLow

Minimalist Companion

"Simple is enough."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Connection

Communication

Calm

Initiation

Passive

Attachment

Avoidant

Power

Submissive

Risk orientationLow
Typical confidenceLow

Exhibitionist Performer

"Watch me shine."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Validation

Communication

Expressive

Initiation

Active

Attachment

Mixed

Power

Switch

Risk orientationHigh
Typical confidenceHigh

Curious Apprentice

"Teach me everything."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Growth

Communication

Open

Initiation

Shared

Attachment

Secure

Power

Switch

Risk orientationModerate
Typical confidenceModerate
Unlock Insight

7 more archetypes
to explore...

Relational Healer
Spiritual Lover
Loyal Ritualist

To explore all 14 archetypes, start our survey and discover which ones fit you best.

Start survey now

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Spark Seeker

"Let's find the spark—then turn it into a blaze."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Pleasure & play

Communication

Charming

Initiation

Active

Attachment

Avoidant/secure

Power

Switch

Risk orientationHigh
Typical confidenceHigh

Sensual Connector

"Touch me with presence and meet me with heart."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Intimacy & bonding

Communication

Authentic

Initiation

Responsive

Attachment

Anxious

Power

Switch

Risk orientationLow
Typical confidenceModerate

Power Orchestrator

"I set the frame—and we play inside it."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Power

Communication

Commanding

Initiation

Active

Attachment

Disorganized

Power

Dominant

Risk orientationHigh
Typical confidenceHigh

Approval Seeker

"Tell me I'm enough."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Validation

Communication

Adaptive

Initiation

Responsive

Attachment

Anxious

Power

Submissive

Risk orientationLow
Typical confidenceLow

Minimalist Companion

"Simple is enough."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Connection

Communication

Calm

Initiation

Passive

Attachment

Avoidant

Power

Submissive

Risk orientationLow
Typical confidenceLow

Exhibitionist Performer

"Watch me shine."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Validation

Communication

Expressive

Initiation

Active

Attachment

Mixed

Power

Switch

Risk orientationHigh
Typical confidenceHigh

Curious Apprentice

"Teach me everything."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Growth

Communication

Open

Initiation

Shared

Attachment

Secure

Power

Switch

Risk orientationModerate
Typical confidenceModerate
Unlock Insight

7 more archetypes
to explore...

Relational Healer
Spiritual Lover
Loyal Ritualist

To explore all 14 archetypes, start our survey and discover which ones fit you best.

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Takes 10 minutes No account required

Spark Seeker

"Let's find the spark—then turn it into a blaze."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Pleasure & play

Communication

Charming

Initiation

Active

Attachment

Avoidant/secure

Power

Switch

Risk orientationHigh
Typical confidenceHigh

Sensual Connector

"Touch me with presence and meet me with heart."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Intimacy & bonding

Communication

Authentic

Initiation

Responsive

Attachment

Anxious

Power

Switch

Risk orientationLow
Typical confidenceModerate

Power Orchestrator

"I set the frame—and we play inside it."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Power

Communication

Commanding

Initiation

Active

Attachment

Disorganized

Power

Dominant

Risk orientationHigh
Typical confidenceHigh

Approval Seeker

"Tell me I'm enough."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Validation

Communication

Adaptive

Initiation

Responsive

Attachment

Anxious

Power

Submissive

Risk orientationLow
Typical confidenceLow

Minimalist Companion

"Simple is enough."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Connection

Communication

Calm

Initiation

Passive

Attachment

Avoidant

Power

Submissive

Risk orientationLow
Typical confidenceLow

Exhibitionist Performer

"Watch me shine."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Validation

Communication

Expressive

Initiation

Active

Attachment

Mixed

Power

Switch

Risk orientationHigh
Typical confidenceHigh

Curious Apprentice

"Teach me everything."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Growth

Communication

Open

Initiation

Shared

Attachment

Secure

Power

Switch

Risk orientationModerate
Typical confidenceModerate
Unlock Insight

7 more archetypes
to explore...

Relational Healer
Spiritual Lover
Loyal Ritualist

To explore all 14 archetypes, start our survey and discover which ones fit you best.

Start survey now

Takes 10 minutes No account required

Spark Seeker

"Let's find the spark—then turn it into a blaze."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Pleasure & play

Communication

Charming

Initiation

Active

Attachment

Avoidant/secure

Power

Switch

Risk orientationHigh
Typical confidenceHigh

Sensual Connector

"Touch me with presence and meet me with heart."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Intimacy & bonding

Communication

Authentic

Initiation

Responsive

Attachment

Anxious

Power

Switch

Risk orientationLow
Typical confidenceModerate

Power Orchestrator

"I set the frame—and we play inside it."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Power

Communication

Commanding

Initiation

Active

Attachment

Disorganized

Power

Dominant

Risk orientationHigh
Typical confidenceHigh

Approval Seeker

"Tell me I'm enough."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Validation

Communication

Adaptive

Initiation

Responsive

Attachment

Anxious

Power

Submissive

Risk orientationLow
Typical confidenceLow

Minimalist Companion

"Simple is enough."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Connection

Communication

Calm

Initiation

Passive

Attachment

Avoidant

Power

Submissive

Risk orientationLow
Typical confidenceLow

Exhibitionist Performer

"Watch me shine."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Validation

Communication

Expressive

Initiation

Active

Attachment

Mixed

Power

Switch

Risk orientationHigh
Typical confidenceHigh

Curious Apprentice

"Teach me everything."

Behavioral tendencies:

Core motivation:

Growth

Communication

Open

Initiation

Shared

Attachment

Secure

Power

Switch

Risk orientationModerate
Typical confidenceModerate
Unlock Insight

7 more archetypes
to explore...

Relational Healer
Spiritual Lover
Loyal Ritualist

To explore all 14 archetypes, start our survey and discover which ones fit you best.

Start survey now

Takes 10 minutes No account required

Let's explore our desiresand connection.

Clarify your inner landscape.

Turn inward, and map out the desires,boundaries, and emotions you've neverfully named. LoveIQ guides us withthoughtful questions so we can givelanguage to what we feel and want.

Uncover your unique erotic signature.

Discover patterns that belong only toyou—no generic horoscopes here. Ourscience based report reveals how ourmind, body, and heart connect so wecan understand ourself.

Couple illustration

LoveIQ Gives You Language.

Stop guessing. Get clarity, vocabulary, and a deeper understanding of the terms that define your connection. We decode the complex science of intimacy.

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Importance of Sexuality

Trait & DispositionSensitive Topic

How central sex and sexual connection are to a person's overall relationship satisfaction and sense of wellbeing.

What This Really Means

For some people, sexual connection is a primary bonding channel; for others, it is secondary to emotional intimacy, companionship, or shared goals.

Supported by academic multidisciplinary expertise

Our Academic Board supports us that what we build is grounded in science, ethics and state of the art methodology.

Prof. Dr. Konrad Schnabel

Prof. Dr. Konrad Schnabel

Personality PsychologyPsychological Diagnostics
IPS Berlin logo
Harvard University shieldHarvard University
Dr. Dijana Galijašević

Dr. Dijana Galijašević

Business EthicsSocial Science
Columbia University logoHHL Leipzig logo
Dr. Bruno Steinkraus

Dr. Bruno Steinkraus

BiochemistryNeuroscience
Imperial College London logoUniversity of Oxford logo
Dr. Quentin Ferry

Dr. Quentin Ferry

Machine LearningMolecular Biology
University of Oxford logoMIT logo
Prof. Dr. Konrad Schnabel

Prof. Dr. Konrad Schnabel

Personality PsychologyPsychological Diagnostics
IPS Berlin logo
Harvard University shieldHarvard University
Dr. Dijana Galijašević

Dr. Dijana Galijašević

Business EthicsSocial Science
Columbia University logoHHL Leipzig logo
Dr. Bruno Steinkraus

Dr. Bruno Steinkraus

BiochemistryNeuroscience
Imperial College London logoUniversity of Oxford logo
Dr. Quentin Ferry

Dr. Quentin Ferry

Machine LearningMolecular Biology
University of Oxford logoMIT logo
Prof. Dr. Konrad Schnabel

Prof. Dr. Konrad Schnabel

Personality PsychologyPsychological Diagnostics
IPS Berlin logo
Harvard University shieldHarvard University
Dr. Dijana Galijašević

Dr. Dijana Galijašević

Business EthicsSocial Science
Columbia University logoHHL Leipzig logo
Dr. Bruno Steinkraus

Dr. Bruno Steinkraus

BiochemistryNeuroscience
Imperial College London logoUniversity of Oxford logo
Dr. Quentin Ferry

Dr. Quentin Ferry

Machine LearningMolecular Biology
University of Oxford logoMIT logo

LoveIQ Report

LoveIQ helps us decode our desires, attachment patterns, emotional needs, and intimate dynamics so we can build relationships that are aligned, exciting, and safe.

Guided educational survey

Built with psychology & relationship science.

Personalized towards our archetypes

Showing our individual patterns and challenges.

10+ detailed report sections

Covering turn-ons, fears, strengths & growth paths.

Tailored recommendations

Curated books & courses for your archetype.

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Instant Results

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Science-Backed

Based on over +100 scientific papers papers & books from the worlds leading therapists and researchers.

100% Private

Your data is anonymous. We prioritize your privacy and do not sell your personal information or link results to your identity.

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4.9/5 Rating

30,000+ people have taken a
first step to understand themselves.

The results were more insightful than I expected. It connected dots between emotional triggers and communication styles I hadn’t noticed before. Solid UX, too.

Noah, 29

Software Engineer

The report was shockingly accurate. And the science behind it? Legit. I liked seeing the blend of emotional intelligence and cognitive behavior models.

Amir, 41

Product Manager

We took the quiz together and compared our results—it sparked one of the best conversations we've ever had. It helped us understand our emotional rhythm better.

Chloe & Andre

34 & 35

We thought it’d be just fun. Turns out, it opened a new level of communication in our relationship. Every couple should try this.

Kim & Eli

26 & 27

Why we created LoveIQ?

Positive sexual well-being is highlylinked to lower stress, anxiety, anddepression, better cardiovascularhealth, and higher relationshipsatisfaction.Therefore we want to make sexualitysomething we can explore withcuriosity, confidence, and care — notshame or confusion.

WomenMen
42%54%

42% - 54%

of women and men in long-term relationships report sexual dissatisfaction.

20%

Satisfaction

Live Data

Only 20%

of adults say they're satisfied with their sex life.

Fulfillment Gap Detected

< 50%

Nearly two-thirds say their sex life shapes their happiness — yet less than half feel fulfilled.

FAQs

Curious Minds Ask. We Answer.

LoveIQ is not a one-off quiz. It is a guided journey of self-understanding. You begin with a core assessment, and your profile can deepen over time as you explore additional topics, reflections, and optional follow-ups. Continued engagement allows your insights to become more precise and personalized.

LoveIQ analyzes how you think, feel, communicate, and relate. It translates your responses into a personalized archetype profile and relationship intelligence report that highlights patterns, strengths, challenges, and compatibility dynamics.

Your data is encrypted, private, and never sold. Responses are used only to generate your results and to improve our models in anonymized form. You can delete or export your data at any time.

Depending on the product you use, your results may include: Archetype match scores; Trait patterns across psychological dimensions; Strengths, challenges, and blind spots; Practical insights for attraction, communication, intimacy, and long-term compatibility. The reports are designed to feel both emotionally resonant and scientifically grounded.

LoveIQ is for anyone seeking deeper clarity about themselves and their relationship patterns—whether single, dating, or in a long-term partnership. It is especially relevant for people who value self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and personal growth.

Yes. LoveIQ draws from relationship psychology, attachment theory, personality science, behavioral research, and large-scale pattern analysis. These foundations are combined with modern machine-learning techniques to create a rigorous and human-centered system.

Accuracy depends on the clarity and honesty of your inputs. The model identifies consistent patterns across multiple dimensions, going beyond a casual personality quiz. While no system can capture every nuance of a person, many users report that the insights feel precise and personally meaningful.

Yes. Your profile includes tailored suggestions such as communication strategies, dating insights, intimacy considerations, and long-term growth paths. Optional follow-up modules allow for deeper exploration.

Yes. You can use LoveIQ with only an email address, and in some cases without entering your name. Your answers are private unless you choose to share your results.

We are working with selected psychologists and relationship coaches to offer optional paid sessions. These experts will be familiar with the LoveIQ framework and able to support you based on your profile.

You can start with a free introductory assessment. Full reports and advanced insights are available through a one-time purchase.

Most users complete the initial assessment in 7–12 minutes. It is mobile-friendly, intuitive, and can be paused and resumed at any time.

Yes. Progress is saved using a secure magic link sent to your email. You can resume, revisit results, or share them with a partner—no account required.

Ready to understand and grow?

Join us to build stronger relationships, communicate with real clarity, and step into confident, authentic sexuality.

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